I want to help, I really do. I hate seeing you sad and upset, and if I could make things better for you, I really would. I don’t know how to help. But if there’s anything, anything at all, that I can do, please tell me, because I will do it gladly. *hugs*
You’re not dislikeable at all! You have a unique personality, and that’s a good thing. So you’re different in your humour or in the comments you make. That’s just who you are. And if people don’t understand you, then that’s their loss. I don’t think your friends dislike you, they just don’t really get you, and I guess that makes it hard for them to be around you sometimes? I don’t know ;^; Don’t let people get to you, hun, you are brilliant and special and amazing and I know I keep repeating that at you, but it’s so, so true and I will keep saying it until you believe it, and even after.
You’re not stupid to like someone – it’s something you really can’t control, don’t beat yourself up over it. God knows it’s one of the worst feelings sometimes, and it’s really hard, but you’re only human. I truly do believe you’ll find someone because, no matter what you think about yourself, I think you are a wonderful, kind hearted person and you deserve someone as special as you <3 And long distance relationships, or relationships where you can’t see each other a lot, can be really difficult. But I have some friends who pull it off really well, and they’re happy and in love despite it all. I mean, it doesn’t work for everyone, but, well, don’t write it off, I guess? And yeah, having no money or car or anything can put a damper on just summer by itself, let alone a relationship. Are you close enough to places to walk? Do you have friends who might not mind driving you somewhere once in a while?
Aw, no, don’t worry, the longing hits me by itself every once in a while, just talking about it makes me think about it. And thinking about things is always good in the long run. And like I said, you’re gonna find someone. I know it. But in the meantime, friends and fanfic. I’m in the same boat there (,:/ We can drown in our lonely sorrows together ;v;
I’m really happy for you that you could take those negative experiences and learn from them. You’re such a strong person, Apple (: I hope I can learn from you, because I am most certainly not ;v; I’m proud of you, hun!
Mm, I tell myself I should feel good when people want to talk to me, because it means they’re comfortable with me and like me enough to want to share personal things with me. I always feel really nervous about giving advice, though, but yes, it’s good to see how I can help someone out in their time of need. Haha, it mostly stresses me out, though, I guess I am not relaxed enough to see the humour (,: (And yes, I am a proper Canadian, we spell with “u’s” (: )
*hugs back* Thanks, hun. I will try not to be such a big jerk in the future ;v;
There’s not really much to do about it, unfortunately. I don’t have the money for therapy/meds, but on the plus side! I also exhibit bipolar tendencies, so occassionally I go from terribly bored and horribly depressed, to just terribly bored. LOOK! I’m squiggly! (~>3>)~ ~(<w<~) ~(‘o’)~ (I have a headache, nothing to do, no motivation, but I’m squiggly. That pretty much sums up a manic up-swing in the ol’ bipolar disorder. WHOO! >3>;; )
Oh no, my friends all love me. It’s the people that have the misfortune to sit with us at meals in the cafeteria that hate me. XD; But fuck them, I’m always first to dinner so technically they’re at MY table! *cackles*
More like I’m neurotic, loud, and, again, vulgar. DEAR GOD, the freshman class last year loved me. XDD So many ‘oh snap!’ highfives. XD I’m gonna be bummed come Fall when I don’t get to eat in the cafeteria anymore, but at least I can cook good food and bribe Katie with a free meal to come eat with me. See, at my school we have meal plans for the cafeteria if you live in dorms, but if you live in a school-controlled apartment, you don’t get the meal plan anymore. And UGHH all my friends in my year had apartments last year and I was one of the few upperclassmen still eating in the cafeteria! So I didn’t get to see a lot of my friends very often. FORTUNATELY, near the end of the year, Gaby started bringing her laptop to dinner and we would sit there for 3 hours every single night! (i’m not even joking XD ) and just look at Avengers porn and stuff on tumblr. Actually, that’s the whole reason I even have a tumblr. XD SQUIGGLY! (~>W>)~ OH GOD I’M SO HYPER. SORRYYYYY ~(;A;)~”
I feel like…that’s something I said to you a few replies back… XD; I think my issue with long distance relationships is that I am a creature of physical comforts and routines. Like, when I was in love with that girl in high school, we met online, talked online, she’d call my house and we’d spend HOURS talking about nothing and just hearing her voice made my heart flutter. It actually cured a cold I had one time. XD; And I was very okay with what (I thought) we had at the time becomes that’s all we COULD do and all we had ever DONE. My BOYFRIENDS, on the other hand, I knew both IRL and my problem with both was that because both relationships started off as us spending so much time together and then being seperated, that didn’t go over well with me. It broke our routine and changed what we could do, and knowing me, this is me, once I’m in love with someone, I could probably long-distance it forever so long as we never met face to face, because I know me and the second I actually get to meet a person I love, I never want to let go and the separation just wrecks my heart. If I had actually been able to meet up with that girl once upon a time, I would’ve moved to a different state, changed schools and everything JUST to be with her. >3>;; Hell, I more or less moved for that one asshole boyfriend. Got a job for the summer up where he lived, moved in with his family, and we spent the whole (miserable) summer together. It wasn’t the greatest and it made me realize just how much of an ass he was, but I did it out of love because he had graduated and this was my last chance to be with him because he refused to move back down to the town our college is in to be with me. OH LOOK! I’m rambling again! asdfghjkl MY BAD. HERE! HAVE SOME MORE SQUIGGLIES! (~*A*)~”
The nearest shops are about a half an hour’s walk away and it’s been in the 100’s (F) here lately. There isn’t always side walks and it’s a heavily trafficked area, so lots of smoke and pollution. And no, I don’t have any friends nearby who could drive me places. OTL One of my school friends, who lives an hour away, keeps threatening to kidnap me, but he never does. OTL;;;
<3 I am currently in the friends area of that—I’ve been reading a really bad fanfic lately, but like Glee, I just can’t quit it for some reason. XD *hugs*
PSH, I learn from them only subconsciously. On the outside I’m a whiny brat that’s super pissed at those experiences. XD;; And don’t sell yourself short, missy! We all learn from every experience we have! From the small things to the heartbreaking things! Whether we know it (or want to know it) or not, what doesn’t kill us makes us grow as people! And if it kills you….well you’re dead. XD;;; (asdfghjkl what am i even saying?i’msosorryi’mtypingfasterthanmybraincanbecoherent (~>3>)~”’ )
I always just assumed people came to me to bitch about their problems because I actually listen. XD;; (I’m sorry, I don’t mean to sound crass, I really do care about peoples’ problems, just the verb ‘to bitch’ seemed most appropriate. i’materribleperson OTL;; ) I think I’m confortable giving advice because, like the Doctor, I’m clever. XD; nononono—I mean I am very logical and think things through so when I’m presented with a problem and take into consideration all possible factors and variables and play scenarios in my head and then tell a person what they should do for the best outcome. I WOULD MAKE SUCH A GOOD VILLAIN, YOU HAVE NO IDEA. XD;;;
I’m also a bit schaudenfraude—I take a small bit of pleasure in other people’s (petty) grievances. It sounds mean, I knoooow. >3>;;; But I’m a terrible person, so whateves. :D”’
(Bless you, Canadians. *salutes* )
You are nooooooooooot a jerrrrrrrrrk!!! *flails a little and then hugs you again*